Be a great housewife!
Hi. Assalamualaikum. :)
Perasaan yang sangat sukar untuk digambarkan. chewah! :D Honestly, i myself do not know how to describe the feeling inside. Everything mix up. Happy? yea i'm happy. But I cant find any reason why I should be happy. Am I stress? No( partially yes, but just not bother 'bout the exam). So, what is wrong with me lately?
Always easy to get mad over silly little things. Feeling sad for no reason. And fortunately, I still don't forget how to smile. Phew..
Actually, I'm quite nervous 'bout what will I become in the next few years. Serious thinking (well, never though about this before). Obi and I had plan to get married end of this year (Insyaallah).. People keep asking me about my future. From the start, I want to be a great mom, a great wife and a super housewife (Amin). Which mean here, I do not want to be a career women. Well, some just not agree with me. They said if I don't want to work, then why have further study?
Ok, here is the answer. I often talk and discuss about this with my friends. I have a senior that i always pay full respect to him. He is a really good adviser. Once, he asked me what i'm gonna do in the next 5 years? Without thinking much, i said "I want to be a mom. A housewife." He smile and said, "ok, just marry me. haha joking". Well the next came the part how the discussion lead us.
He said, "Aku pun setuju kalau future wife aku nanti tak kerja. Aku nak dia duk rumah jaga anak-anak, layan suami. Tu tanggungjawab dia. Kami yang lelaki ni yang sepauttnya keluar cari rezeki untuk sara anak-anak bini. Banyak pahala yang isteri boleh dapat. Aku pun tak sokong kalau isteri keluar bekerja. Kerja sekarang dah tak ada batas jantina. Lelaki perempuan pun campur-campur. Fitnah boleh berlaku bila-bila je. Bukan tak percaya kat isteri, tapi tak percaya kat orang lain. Lagipun kena ingat dosa isteri ni, suami yang tanggung. Kalau tengik, perempuan yang kerja ni, lain sikit. Bila dah terpengaruh dengan kawan-kawan satu ofis, mula nak berbanding-banding. Baju la, mekap la, kasut la..See, bila dah jadi macam ni susah. Buatnya iman tak kuat, dari baju longgar-longgar, dah pandai ikut tubuh (walau still baju kurung). Dari tak pakai mekap, dah panadai nak oles2 lipstik kat bibir. Benda macam ni kalau dibiar lama susah bro."
"Lagi satu yang paling penting, aku nak anak-anak aku terdidik dengan ibu sendiri. Masa ni la ilmu yang isteri belajar dari tadika sampai abes degree diguna pakai. Ilmu tu la nanti boleh guna ajar anak-anak sendiri. Tak payah nak bazirkan duit nak hantar tuisyen kalau setakat sekolah rendah and menengah (kecuali subjek yang memeang tak pernah belajar). Anak-anak akan rasa lebih dekat dengan ibu. "
"Isteri yang tak kerja ni, pahala dia lebih sebab dia yang akan uruskan rumah tangga. Kemas rumah, memasak, basuh baju, lipat kain. Insyaallah, dia buat dengan ikhlas, masuk la mana-mana pintu syurga pun nanti."
And, yup. I agree with all of them. Sorry my dear friends, I just have no interest to work. Hope you all understand me. :)
Salam.
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